Engy Elghannam 
The movie “It Ends with Us” sheds light on a critical yet often overlooked issue: the complexities of abusive relationships and the bravery required to escape them. Unlike earlier times when enduring abuse was seen as a necessary part of keeping a relationship together, this film offers a new perspective. Through its main character, Lily, the movie shows how past attitudes kept women stuck in harmful situations and the incredible courage required to break free. It makes it clear that love alone isn't enough if a relationship lacks respect and understanding.
The Past’s Chains: Why Women Stayed in Abusive Relationships
In previous times, societal norms made it difficult for women to leave abusive relationships. Fear of loneliness, the burden of raising children alone, and the emotional toll of a breakup often led them to stay in harmful situations. This struggle is poignantly illustrated through Lily's mother in the film. When Lily asks why her mother stayed with her abusive father, her mother's response reveals how daunting it was to face life on her own. For her, enduring a troubled relationship seemed less daunting than starting over alone.
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Breaking Free: Lily’s Courage to End the Cycle of Abuse
It Ends with Us changes this perspective. Lily, the protagonist, finds the courage to break the cycle of abuse. As Ryle’s behavior becomes more abusive, Lily confronts the harsh reality of her situation. She realizes that making excuses for Ryle's actions is no longer viable. Despite her deep love for him, Lily decides to leave, determined not to repeat the cycle of abuse she saw in her parents' relationship.
Love Alone Isn’t Enough
The film also teaches us an important lesson, that not everyone we love is the right partner for us. Love alone isn’t enough if the relationship lacks respect, trust, loyalty, and kindness. These elements are crucial for a healthy relationship. It Ends with Us shows that while unconditional love is important, it must be balanced with respect and mutual understanding.
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A New Beginning: Lily’s Sacrifice for Her Daughter’s Future
I really loved how the title, "It Ends with Us", is deeply meaningful. It represents the end of the abusive cycle with Lily and her daughter. Lily’s choice to raise her child in a loving, supportive environment marks a significant change. She becomes a single mother, choosing to provide her daughter with a healthy upbringing free from the trauma of her own past relationship. This choice reflects Lily's personal sacrifice, as she lets go of her relationship with Ryle for the sake of her child's well-being.
The Power of Self-Love and Forgiveness
Moreover, the film highlights the importance of self-love, forgiveness, and the ability to create a happy ending despite challenges. Lily’s decision to prioritize her own well-being over an abusive relationship is a profound act of self-respect. She forgives Ryle, not out of obligation, but as a way to move forward without bitterness. This act of forgiveness shows that ending a relationship can be done with compassion and focus on personal growth.
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It Ends with Us serves as a powerful reminder of the strength needed to break free from the cycle of abuse. It encourages us to confront our own struggles and offers hope and empowerment to anyone seeking to escape an abusive relationship.
