One of the hardest things a parent has to do is make a decision that involves their children's safety and upbringing. One of the most crucial decisions is picking your kids' nursery. There are so many factors that come into play, and you start to panic about them leaving the comfort of your home and environment.
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Having them enter preschool is not easy, but there are some steps that you can take and questions you can ask that could make things a little easier for you. Read these tips on choosing a nursery for your kids—the things you should watch out for and keep in mind. Also, tell us what you think, and if you've already been there, what worked for you? Help other moms out!
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Check out these tips on choosing a nursery for your kids
1. Check the location!
You want your kid's nursery or daycare to be as close to you as possible. Practically, this will help you a lot when you're picking them up and dropping them off on your way back to work. It will also give you a sense of peace to feel some kind of proximity to them, in case you need to hurry and get them.
2. Reviews
Get as many reviews as you can from real people, not just online! Go as far as even contacting mothers who have sent their kids there. Take advice from moms you trust and who have a similar lifestyle and similar needs for their kids. Listen to everything they have to say. Weigh all the points mentioned, and make sure you feel safe and at peace with all the things mentioned.
3. Safety
When you visit the nursery, make sure to check for safety and make sure it's a number one priority for the organization. Check the cleanliness of the bathrooms; talk to the nanny who's going to be responsible for their bathroom time. Check all the rooms and playground areas and make sure everything is well equipped and looks safe, with no potential causes of injury or harm. Ask about their first aid equipment and make sure they have cameras!
4. Food
A lot of mothers prefer to pack their children's own lunchbox to the nursery, but if they're going to be serving them food there and you don't mind, you have to ask about the food they'll be serving. If you can, even check the kitchen and take a close look at sanitation. Ask about their menu and make sure it's healthy, goes with what they're used to eating, and is safe on their platter.
5. Get to know the culture...
It's very important to sit with the owner of the place and really get to know them; observe how they are with the children and with everyone; and learn about their mindset so you can see if you're comfortable with the culture they've probably integrated into the place. How do they believe children should be talked to and treated? How do they teach them, and what do they teach them? What are their values when it comes to children's behaviors? What is their knowledge of child psychology?
Also, it's very important to get to know the person who's going to be responsible for your baby every day. Ensure they're qualified, certified, and experienced. Talk to them, make sure you're 100% comfortable with them, and make a test run where you get to see how they are with your child. Also, watch how the children at the nursery interact with each other; it is a good indicator of the social behaviors taught, accepted, or promoted at the kindergarten.
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6. Observe your child...
Try to really observe your child when he gets back from nursery. How is his mood? Does he seem happy? Excited? Is he acting weird or any different? Do you notice any change in behavior or attitude, whether negative or positive? You'd be surprised that these are the things that can really show you something you might not have noticed. You can sometimes tell your baby something's not right. Make sure to also talk to them and let them tell you as much as they can about their day.
7. What do you teach my kids?
A lot of parents want their kids to start learning during preschool. So if this is something that's important to you, make sure to get familiar with their teaching program. Does it go with the things you want to prioritize? Does it fit their personality? If your child needs special care and needs, not just in education, with anything from potty training to playing with other kids, is that something they already notice and provide without you having to remind them or tell them? At the end of the day, it can be a very good nursery, but one that doesn't really fit your child's wants or what makes them comfortable.
8. Nap time
Make sure they get a regular scheduled nap time every day that also fits your routine at home, or one you can adapt to. What do they nap on? Make sure it gets washed regularly, or you can provide it yourself if you want to, and bring to the teachers attention that it be marked so that it won't be mixed up with others.
9. Classroom environment
Ideally, it should not be either too messy or too neat; it should look like children play there and have access to tools and toys. If there are a lot of electronics or computers, make sure to ask about how they're used and why, because you want them to stay active and focused on stimulating the brain healthily. Also, learn about the games and activities they play and how they encourage growth, skills, and, of course, creativity and imagination.
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