20 Things Guys Say When They Want to End a Relationship

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2. ”Many of your actions bother me. And if you want to keep this relationship going, you must change”

Relationships are about seeing the flaws in your partner , working together to try and improve to be able to have a smooth relationship, and seeing which flaws you can live with. What is a flaw to one person, isn't to another. So if he is no longer willing to work on the relationship, or that's a phrase mentioned, you might want to opt out. People should grow individually and together in a relationship. 

3.” We're not the same, and I believe this will lead to the end of our relationship in the future”

A friendly reminder that if you enter a relationship expecting it to end in a breakup, it will. However, if you enter a relationship and do everything you can to make it work, it will.

4. “Even if our relationship ends, I will still love you.”

That's sweet, but you don't need that kind of love.

5. "I'm not going to change who I am, and you should be thankful that I'm in your life!"

He shouldn't expect you to change if he isn't willing to change himself. And I'm sure you'll be more thankful when he's not in your life.

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6. ”I don't like independent women; I prefer for my partner to be reliant on me”

It's not like you were hiding your independence; you deserve a man who appreciates that aspect of you.

7. "I love you so much, but I'm not ready to be in a committed relationship" 

You can't make him stay, so let him go and if it's meant to be, he'll return.

8. "You'd be better off without me; I feel like our relationship is unfair to you."

 If he feels that way, I'm sure you'll find a partner who will love you the way you want without questioning your relationship.

9. "I need some time to reflect on our relationship and where we stand."

If he needs space, it means he isn't ready to commit, and you don't want to waste your love on someone who isn't ready.

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10. "I don't deserve someone like you"

Well, he's the one who said it you deserve someone better.

11. "I'm afraid I can't give you what you deserve."

 I respect men who recognize that you deserve better.

12. "My family is making things difficult for me."

If he pulls out the family card, it means he really wants to end things, and it's better to end it now.

13. "Someone will be lucky to be with you"

So, if he considers himself to be unlucky, you should look for someone else.

14. "I wish we had met sooner"

It's a case of "right person, wrong time," but is there such a thing? It's debatable. However, if he believes that the timing is not right, he will always believe that the entire relationship is not right.

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15. "We should just be friends. Friendship is more valuable than love!"

Gurl! You've been friend-zoned. And I'm sure you have plenty of friends, so you don't need his friendship in your life.

16. "We are not the same, and this worries me; does it worry you as well?" 

Well, the saying "opposites attract" didn't come from nowhere, and he's just using a lame excuse to end it. And dating someone who is exactly like you is a little boring; it's like dating yourself. You want someone who will introduce you to new things.

17. "I'm not ready for marriage right now, but when I am, it will be you for sure!."

This is extremely confusing, probably you are wondering "What should I do now?" What if I wait for him? or should I just move on? The best thing to do is to see if he truly means what he said. Is he saving up and planning a proposal, for example?

18. "My career or studies are my top priorities."

If he tells you that, it's difficult to imagine a future with him because his number one priority is his future, and you're not in it.

19. "I don't like the way you dress or your makeup style; if you want me to stay in your life, you have to change all of this."

 I'm a firm believer that no one should change for someone unless they want to change for the better. However, simply changing yourself to please him is not healthy for you because you will be uncomfortable in whatever situation you are in.

20. "I feel like our relationship lacks love," 

so if he feels that way and you see that you are doing everything you can to make things work, he may want to end things. And, to be honest, a relationship is built on more than just love; it is built on trust, honesty, commitment, and other factors.

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If a guy wants to end a relationship, he can say any of these 20 phrases. You must trust your instincts and recognize that the problem is not in you, but rather that you are not meant to be with this person, and that there is someone better for you out there. 

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