While this article is devoted to how to drive your man crazy with some kissing techniques, we want to assure you that your satisfaction and pleasure is our priority too. The following kissing techniques will be equally loved by both of you. But since many of you are looking for kissing techniques that guys love, we thought we'd give you a few tips on how to kiss a guy well so you can blow his mind away or surprise him the next time things get a little heated.
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Kissing techniques that guys love:
1. Ask him about what he loves
There is no rule book. Every guy is different and what one person likes, the other might not, and vice versa. We all have our little soft spots, so we need to share them with our partner so they know how to turn us on. There's absolutely nothing wrong with asking him about what he likes. Do you like that? Should I try that? Did that work? and so on. Moreover, don't forget to tell him what you like and don't like.
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However, the spontaneous factor is really important, so you can try things out first and see how he reacts or ask him later how it was. That's because some guys might not know what they like or end up liking something they haven't tried before.
2. Eye contact
Yes, intimacy and connection are very important. If he looks at you and can tell from your eyes you're enjoying yourself, it will be a huge turn on for him. Our eyes are very expressive, so use them and don't shy away. Every now and then, lock eyes with him and that will drive him crazy.
3. A little bite
Don't be alarmed. We're not telling you to cause him any harm or potential stitches. You can ask him beforehand if he likes that or if he'd like to try it. Then while being very careful and gentle, slowly and only for a few seconds gently tug at his lower lip with the softest pressure or even suck it. It can be extremely hot and could be a pleasant surprise that catches him off guard in a good way.
4. Use your hands
Guys love having hands behind their neck. Remember to use your hands and let them roam free wherever the passion takes you. Run your fingers through his hair, on his back, and maybe tug at his shirt pulling him closer to you.
5. Guide his hands
You can also guide his hands to where you want them to be. He will really love that. Show him that you know what you like and that you're taking control of his hands to where you want them to be.
6. Change the pace: Go from soft and slow to "I must have you now!"
Guys love the build up of anticipation just like we do, varying between teasing and going at it really intensely. Start things off soft, slow, and romantic, then build up to hot, heavy, and intense. Then go back to soft again then intense and so on. Keep changing up the pace so you both keep getting excited over and over again.
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7. The jawline
Kissing underneath the jaw could be a huge turn-on for a lot of guys. You can consider it as a part of the previous point. While you're on your journey to the neck area, give some love to his jawline.
8. How about some tongue action?
As for the tongue action, a lot of people recommend you start slowly and ease into it by having some subtle slips of the tongue here and there. These are actually some guy’s recommendations given to Bustle:
“Don't go straight for the tongue. Part your lips slightly and grab onto his upper or lower lip with your lips. Eventually you can get your tongue involved, but start here.”
"When it gets a bit more hot and heavy, move your tongue slowly in a circular motion before going back to the lips. "
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9. His neck
Don't forget about the neck. Every now and then, move on from the lips and go to his neck kissing it and breathing against it. You can also give it a little lick. Don't forget to play around with your tongue. Remember to be vocal by moaning and expressing your enjoyment whether you're kissing the neck or lips.
10. Tease him!
Teasing can be such a turn-on for both of you. Get a little playful and tease him while kissing. While he’s leaning in for a kiss, pull away from him and don’t let him have it. He'll keep trying and you'll keep teasing until you finally get to kiss and it will be really intense and sexy.
Pull away, smile, and be flirty. When you pull away, you'll have him give you that look of desire, so trust the process as you may even enjoy this more than he does. You can also try brushing your lips softly against his and feeling each other's breath to build up intensity before you get into a deep kiss.
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11. Don't forget the ear!
Ears are a big deal for some guys. The earlobe is a soft spot, so you can try to turn him on while you're in that area. Go from the neck to the ear seamlessly and kiss it, breathe and moan next to it, lick it, and give it a little bite or tug.
12. The collarbone
Apparently the collarbone and the little dimples or dips there are a bonus for some guys. That's another interesting addition that you can try out.
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Enjoy and happy kissing!
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